Saturday, February 03, 2007
sad state of parenting
Was trying to get one student into this programme that will help this student to have a clearer goal and acquire lifeskill. This student tried to 'run' from the programme.
I had to call the parents about it. When I reached the mother, the mother asked if it was about school. I replied yes. She told me to talk to the father.
I felt very sad. Either the mother feels powerless in managing this child or she is too busy. I doubt she is busy so as to be richer. Most likely she is trying hard to support the family. Yet, in return, the child is not responsible and appreciative.
Having less money and more of the child is more important. This student is rude and self-centered. Sad.... very sad. And this is just one of the many cases.
I know we have less when we decide that my wife will stay home to look after the children. Much less. But it is a worthy sacrifice. To have more of the children and less of the money.
tse horng blogged at 3:39 AM